Terimakasih Mbak Eka, kata-katanya menampar sekali😀
Gue amat sangat mengapresiasi dan mengambil nilai positif, dimana dari kata-kata ini ada benarnya juga bahwa di umur 20 tahun ini akan sulit untuk jatuh cinta dan kita udah mulai beranjak dewasa, dimana nggak mudah buat asal suka sama orang tanpa memikirkan nilai baik atau buruknya.
Dimana di umur sekarang, kita itu mencari seseorang yang benar-benar cinta sama kita dan siap berbagi dan merencanakan rencana jangka panjang untuk ke depannya.
Dimana di masa ini, kita juga harus berpikir bahwa suatu hubungan itu harus punya tujuan bersama, bukan buat main-main.
Daan masih banyak lagi nilai positif yang bisa diambil dari semua kata-kata Mbak Utari.
I'm so speechless to read this.
So, you guys can read the extraordinary opinion from her.
Hope, you like it <3
For those who might have been in their 20s or going to be in their 20s.
I know it is very hard to fall in love in this age. I mean, practically, it's hard because you are no longer a teenager who can easily like someone without thinking about the plus and minus points of his/her, like someone without even think about will your future plans be matched each other, or even as simple as "Can we even get along for a long time periode without any doubts?"
Well, I bet all of us in our twenties are facing the same problem.
Fall in love in this age is about looking for someone who will truly love us just the way we are. It's all about looking for someone who will try as hard as you've been doing so far. And it's simply about looking for someone who is ready to share his/her future plans with you.
It's not the time to have a relationship without any goals, without any visions, it's not the time to play, and it's not the time to choose someone to be your partner based on their look only. It's time to choose wisely, for once in a life time this might be your biggest decision. Sometimes, I found it odd, when there are people who easily confess their love like there's no burden at all knowing that they have to deal with him/her, they have to tie their commitment to be together. But then you have to end your relationship because of one and another things, and easily say goodbye.
Isn't it hurt if you choose to be their partner but then you break up your relationship? Isn't it hurt your feeling seeing someone who used to be your lover holding other's hand?
It's not about only him/her who we are going to deal with, but all the people around them, and even the whole things in his/her life. Their family, their friends, their problems, and even their comfort zone. Have you been ready enough to meet his/her family ? Have you been brave enough to come into his/her comfort zone? Have you been ready enough to deal with him/her in bad and good sides of them? -because some of them only shows their good image while dating.
It's never easy to deal with someone who will be your whole life time partner. Your significant other. And yeah, those who haven't found their partner doesn't mean that they're not ready yet, but they're still trying to fix their heart, preparing everything for both of you, and upgrading themselves to be better and better, so that when the time is coming, they'll be perfectly ready to deal with every single thing in his/her life.
For me, personally, dealing with people can not be that easy. It takes time. It takes much effort.
Because, diving into your mind and soul will never be as easy as praising your appearance
